![]() ![]() I’m thinking about stopping, and wonder if I’m being petty to consider this. I still do this even though after my husband’s death I have not seen them or received any acknowledgment. My husband wanted to help our great nieces and nephews get a good start, and so each year we have given these young adults $15,000. I don’t want to interrupt the flow, but I’ll just quietly slip away, and I want to make sure you understand my reasons.”Īsk Amy: Bossy spouse wants husband thin again ![]() I hope it’s OK with you if I schedule my alone-time for late afternoons. You should tell your hosts, “I have an inescapable need to be alone for some time each afternoon in order to recharge my batteries. Others meditate at the same time each day. If your need to recharge would best be served by staying nearby and planning outings and meals with your hosts, then – you should do that. (Wouldn’t you accept this from your own guests? Of course you would!) ![]() These frequent visits with your friends are lengthy and sound like a lot of fun, but I do think it’s not only acceptable, but advisable, for you to be honest about your own needs. I have a theory that the experience of the lengthy pandemic awakened in many the need – or desire – for more solitude. ![]()
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